Ruby-- 13 Months

Finally getting around to adding pictures to this post that was written in September...

It's hard to believe I have a toddler. Ruby still feels very much like a baby in a lot of ways, who am I kidding, she still IS a baby...my baby. She is definitely growing and changing at a rapid rate at this point. She is learning SO much every day, it is so fun to watch her change.

Our girl is not interested in walking...at all! She will take a few steps to us if we force her to, but that quickly turns into a meltdown if we don't reward her with some holds and cuddles. What can I say? She's spoiled, and loves to be held. I oblige because I love to hold her. It's win, win really. Until my arms start to feel like they are about to fall of. She's crawling at lightening fast speeds and cruising around furniture like it's her job so there's really no point in her walking. I get it, Rubes.

Speaking of her love of being held, this girl can give a great hug, and it's one of her favorite things to do. Just say "Ruby, can I have a hug?" and she will wrap her chubby arms around your neck and rest her sweet little head on your shoulder. Occasionally she'll make this adorable "awwwww" sound while she's hugging, too. It's the best. Seriously. She's also mastered the open mouth kiss, full of slobbery love.

Ruby got a really cute little tea set from our friends for her birthday, and she LOVES to pretend to drink out of her tea cups (and the kettle). She makes sucking sounds as she tilts the cup back and always offers it to others with a cute little "huh?" as if she's saying "would you like some tea?" (in a fancy British accent of course). Playing with her is SO fun these days. She is imaginative and silly. She's still a huge fan of music and dancing, and can always be cheered up by getting her groove on.

We finally have Ruby eating some solid food! This girl loves carbs just like her mama and can devour a piece of bread like a grown man. She's currently a vegetarian and turns her nose up to any meat that I place in front of her. One time she mistook a piece of ground beef for a chocolate chip (because everyone eats their spaghetti and cookie at the same time, right?), and her face was priceless. She slapped her tongue over and over again like I had just tried to poison her. She loves fruit, especially bananas, mangoes, and peaches. She will sometimes eat veggies, but only when the mood is right. My little cajun baby really enjoys jambalaya, red beans & rice, and french bread. She loves greek yogurt, apple sauce, and oatmeal, but ONLY if she can feed it to herself. Cue: huge mess. I'm practicing letting go of control and letting her explore and make a mess with her food. Baths have been bumped up from 3 times a week to a nightly occurence because of this, though. We've gotten her down to nursing just once a day (at night) on school days and 2-3 times a day on the weekends. She still takes one bottle (of whole milk) in the morning when I would usually nurse her, but am normally gone before she wakes up, and is drinking the rest of the day out of a sippy cup. She still asks for "na-na" (milk) pretty regularly, but her requests can be deflected by playtime or a cracker.

Unfortunately, my wish for a healthy month did not come true. We dealt with pink eye, a infectious booty rash, and a constant snotty nose/cough this month. Still no ear infections though...praise the Lord for tubes! This girl doesn't let a little cold or pink eye slow her down though. Just like I always have said, she rolls with the punches, and is still her happy little self for the most part.

Ruby is still sleeping like a champ. I'm grateful for a good sleeper. The only thing we need to work on getting away from is the fact that I still nurse her to sleep. If she's too riled up, I will put her in her crib to fall asleep by herself, but that always means at least 10 minutes of crying. I would really like to get to the point where I can put her in her bed and she will just lay down and go to sleep. I'm sure we will get
there!

Ruby can now identify most of her body parts, and she is so proud of herself for it, too! Her favorite thing to show off is her belly. When you say "where's your belly?" she lifts up her shirt with the biggest smile and rubs her belly over and over again. She's also started copying our copious amounts of raspberry blowing on her belly and will randomly lean over and blow raspberries on random body parts, and will eventually get to your belly if you'll let her. Watch out, this girl knows how to raise a shirt! ;)

Have a accurately described how absolutely awesome Ruby is? I hope so! She is SO fun. I am loving this age. I know that with growing, learning and becoming her own little person she is also gaining opinions, likes, and dislikes. I think just because she can't put into words quite yet exactly what she wants (and her wants and opinions are increasing by the day), this has resulted in a whole new level of temper tantrums. She now throws herself on the ground with her head resting on her arms and just cries. It's quite dramatic, and I usually have to hold back the laughter. It's usually over not getting something that she wants, us not being able to understand what she wants, or just random emotional breakdowns (I get those, too!). Overall though, she's still an absolute delight. Even in her crabby moments, all she really needs are a few cuddles and she's back to her normal self. We are blessed with such a sweet girl!

Ruby's 13 month favorite things:
-Bath time! It's back on the favorites list! Last month she HATED baths...would scream like it was torture. Now she loves it. Babies are so weird.
-Banjo, Mama, Dada, J & J (foster brothers...she really does love them despite her occasional bouts of jealousy)
-Books
-Music
-Playing with her baby dolls and tea set (how girly! haha)
-Being outside
-Milk
-Pulling all of little J's clothes out of his dresser every night while we read stories and pray
-Identifying her body parts
-Putting on and taking off shoes. She could do it all day long. It drives her daycare teachers nuts.
-Giving hugs

Ruby's 13 month not-so-favorite things:
-Leaving mama or dada
-Being told "not right now" or "no"
-Meat
-Mama giving foster brothers too much attention (she's started trying to hit the little one when I am holding him...yikes!)
-Still hates being changed, but it's becoming a little easier to distract her with a book or a toy.
-Trying to walk

Our sweet Ruby, 

If I had to come up with 5 words to describe you they would be sweet, independent, determined, funny, and smart. You have such a great personality that is coming out more and more every day. Your teachers at daycare always comment on how smart and funny you are, and you have everyone wrapped around your little finger! We are so proud of you, and love you more than we could ever say. Your daddy and I often say that if we could be guaranteed babies as great as you, we might never stop having them. That's not true (because there is definitely a point where enough is enough), but that's just how great you are! I am so happy that you came into our lives 13 months ago...life would not be quite as sweet without you in it. 

We love you, baby girl!

Mama